If you feel accountability or guilt around how you may be consciously or unconsciously contributing to systemic racism, you’re not alone. Sit in your discomfort. Own it, and get curious.

Where the Message Falls Short

Personally, I’ve been made painfully aware of my own ignorance which is reflected best in messages I’ve taught our girls. I have always taught them that skin color is no different than eye color, hair color, body height, etc. That it is just something we are born with – something that we don’t choose, and that it’s senseless to judge someone (positively or negatively) for having/being something they had absolutely no choice having/being. I thought it was a loving message to teach, but I now realize it falls so short. It completely glosses over the exquisite array of cultures and histories, and sadly, it dismisses the flagrant oppression of our Black brothers and sisters.

I suspect this is just the beginning of a painful look in the mirror. So much to learn. And as I know better, I will do better. Thank you, Maya Angelou, for that gracious message I’ve leaned on countless times throughout my life.

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